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This post, We WON! Crystal Minx tail wins 2012 AVN best fetish product!, originally appeared on Crystal Delights on January 25, 2012. Tweet This Post!

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And to spice it up just a little bit more… lets throw in a contest!! Get creative! Use your imagination and send me the outcome. All entries will go into the contest as well as qualify for the product discount. But if you just want to enter the contest you have that ability too! GO FOR IT!

Now for the rules:
You can submit multiple entries but you will only get one discount per order.
You give us permission by entering to market and promote this contest, using your photos and videos.
Please dispose of your destroyed toys safely.

Visit the R.I.P. Jelly Toys Wall of Shame

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This post, R.I.P Jelly Toys, originally appeared on Crystal Delights on January 5, 2012. Tweet This Post!

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We have decided that no matter how busy we are there is always time to get a little exercise, and that means more than pushing away from the computer.  Work does come first but Macie has decided there are many trails that need exploring and if we were good dog parents we would make sure she gets to explore them, and she shall!

I want to continue to work on both being a ethical and morally run company, with a continuing emphasis on charity projects.  We intend to expand our Colors Against Cancer line and maybe we should consider a charity donation to an animal charity based on profits of the tail sales?  What do you think? In 2011 we made donations to a handful of charities totaling more than $1250.  This was our first year and we are very happy with that!  Take just a moment to pat yourselves on the back as well, each time you purchased a Colors Against Cancer product or donated to Crystal Causes you were helping us make that happen!  It will only get bigger in 2012!

Now in these last few hours of 2011 I think I will see if there is a good movie to watch, relax, wait for that ball to drop and ring in 2012 knowing it is in our hands and “Together we CAN make a Difference!”

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This post, Out with the old, In with the new!, originally appeared on Crystal Delights on December 31, 2011. Tweet This Post!

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This post, Colors Against Cancer – Cobalt, originally appeared on Crystal Delights on November 12, 2011. Tweet This Post!

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But the highlight of the weekend was my opportunity to meet Chyna who was appearing at the show. In advance I had dug out my 10 year old Playboy Magazine where she was the cover model and I was soooo hoping I could get her to sign it for me. Erik and Inga VanRiper had stopped by to visit us at the show and Inga offered to show me where she was and stand in line with me, so off we went. Chyna was so gracious, we watched her meet with the others ahead of us and she was so patient allowing each person to have enough time with her to really feel special! Then it was my turn! She signed my Playboy, told me how close to her heart it was to her and I gave her a pink frosted Colors Against Cancer plug! YES!! Chyna has one of our plugs!! It was the absolute best part of my weekend, Thank you Chyna!

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This post, Exxxotica New Jersey, originally appeared on Crystal Delights on November 10, 2011. Tweet This Post!

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This post, Kink Academy Open House weekend, originally appeared on Crystal Delights on October 19, 2011. Tweet This Post!

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This post, Next at crystaldelights.com, originally appeared on Crystal Delights on October 14, 2011. Tweet This Post!

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When a woman has never at any time been able to have pain-free intercourse due to muscle spasm, her condition is known as primary vaginismus. Some women with primary vaginismus are unable to wear tampons and/or complete pelvic exams. Many couples are unable to consummate their relationship due to primary vaginismus. Vaginismus can also develop later in life, even after many years of pleasurable intercourse. This type of condition, known as secondary vaginismus, is usually precipitated by a medical condition, traumatic event, childbirth, surgery, or life-change like menopause. (www.vaginismus.com)

I was invited to meet these three couples and “scrub in” for their surgeries. After putting on my scrubs, my booties and my hair net it was into the surgery center for case number 1. I made it not quite 10 minutes and all of the sudden it was pretty hot and I was feeling queasy! What?? I didn’t think I would have any problem at all but I had to leave the room for a few minutes. One of the other assistants asked if I had eaten? Of course not, I didn’t want to have any chance of being queasy (shows what I know!) After a few crackers and some Ginger Ale I was ready to try again and was successful for the next two surgeries, phew!

The reasoning for my attending these cases was to give me the first hand experience and user input to design a set of glass dilators for Vaginismus. But while that did happen, and we have some great ideas, what else happened was to me something that opened my eyes and touched my heart!

All three of these young couples had never had penetrative intercourse. They have all been to many other doctors and received different treatments and sometimes even surgery without a hope of a solution until they found Dr. Peter Pacik who specializes in Vaginismus treatment by using intravaginal injections of Botox together with progressive dilation under anesthesia.

Dr Peter and his staff are AMAZING! I watched him address the very obvious fears of one of his patients who would have just as soon gotten back on the airplane and flown half way around the world back home that very minute than move ahead with the procedure. He calmed her, reassured her and treated her. When I returned for the counseling session the next day, it was a very different young woman in front of me, she was calm, approachable and looking forward to the next steps of her treatment. When I ended my three days with this group of women today I could see the excitement in their faces that there was every possibility that he had solved their problem and they could now look forward to leading normal lives with their partners.

I have come home with ideas for products to help them with both dilation and therapy but more importantly with a great deal of respect for this doctor and his staff. They have found a way to give these women back control, sometimes for the first time, over their own bodies and allow them to have complete sexual relationships that they had all but given up on.

Just a little Disclaimer: I am not any sort of medical professional so anything said here is just my own words and observations after spending three days with the Dr., his staff and these three couples. I would also like to thank them for allowing me to participate in their procedures, it means more to me than they will know and truly opened my eyes to a problem I had never heard of and absolutely needs more attention focused on it. Dr. Peter Pacik is located in Manchester New Hampshire and has written a book called When Sex Seems Impossible Stories of Vaginismus & How You Can Achieve Intimacy

If you have questions or would like to buy Dr. Peter Paciks book please contact me at shellie@virtuallyabout.com. Soon it will be for sale on crystaldelights

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This post, Vaginismus, originally appeared on Crystal Delights on September 28, 2011. Tweet This Post!

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This post, Scarlet’s Letter review of the Rose mini anal twist, originally appeared on Crystal Delights on September 28, 2011. Tweet This Post!

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This post, Vegas and the Lingerie Show, originally appeared on Crystal Delights on September 23, 2011. Tweet This Post!

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